Stand Up!!!
For years people have said to me " Slish you talk too much. You always telling somebody' s business or sticking your nose in where it doesn't belong " Truth about it is. The business is always about something they shouldn't be doing in the first place. Problem with my personality is I can't watch someone do fucked up shit to someone else and just stand around or do nothing. Now the funny thing is Slish is always the one saying " Keep it to yourself don't get involved " The Slasher on the other hand will take action and Fight for Truth, Justice, and The American way.
Friday night Clipperman calls me while i'm at my part time job. Clipperman " Slish I bought the 60 gig Ipod. Still gonna be able to uplaod your playlist tonight? I look at the clock on the computer screen its says 9: oo pm I respond " Meet me in the Bronx at 10 pm " Clipperman sounding excited says " Thank you sir !!! " I finish up what I'm doing and head for the bx.
10:o6 pm I get to the Bronx and drive to the location where Clipperman stated he would be. I pull up to his van. He's in there chit chatting with his boy Drizzy. Drizzy says " What up gay boy. " I laugh, ignore his comment and respond " Can't call it. Haven't seen you in a while. Where you been ? " Drizzy responds" I 've been right here in the Bizonx just been laying low. Btw Slish whats with the no mustache. Looking like a circumcised penis." Clipperman busts out laughing. I respond "OOOh I see where this is going. Let me park my car." I get out, walk over to the van and rest my elbows on the drivers side window. " Drizzy you do realize that you used the word Gay and circumcised penis in back to back sentences. Clipperman starts to giggle cause he knows i'm warming up. Drizzy trying to make an exit says " Aiight fellas I gotta go. Waking up early in the morning" I say " Oh yeah for what? " Drizzy " Going to Va in the morning " Slasher responds " What for? " Drizzy " going to visit someone " THAT RIGHT THERE!!! Was the wrooooong answer. Slasher responds " You're going to see someone ? Not I'm going to see my family or I'm going to see some chick. YOU'RE GOING TO SEE SOMEONE!!! Clipperman starts the chuckle a little more. I say " Why be so secretive pretty boy. What you hidin! Drizzy responds " I'm going to see a chick." I look at clipperman and say " Riiight African!!! Drizzy " Aiight Slish I'm out " Clipperman and I start laughing real hard now I say " Aiight bruh Peace"
We're still laughing then Clipperman's cell phone starts to buzz. He looks at it. His smile turns into a frown. I laugh and say " Thats gotta be your lady." Clipperman nods and answers " Hello . No i'm with Slish and Drizzy . No i'm not avoiding you !! Cmooooon !! No i'm not up to anything !!! LOOK i'm with my people I will call you back ! " He hangs up " Slish she been driving me crazy all week!! I respond " Follow me back to my crib so we get these songs on your ipod I don't have time to hear any bullshit reason for her anger towards you tonight.
10 minutes later we're in my crib i'm downloading all my music files to his ipod. Clipperman cell phone starts to buzz again He sighs looks up at the ceiling and picks it up " Yes!! No i'm still with Slish and Drizzy " When he said that I turned around thinking why is he lying for no reason. We left drizzy 20 minutes ago. Clipperman continues " I am not avoiding you. Yes I know I haven't seen you since Sunday WHY!!! Cause i've been stressed and when i'm stressed I like to be alone " I laugh to myself because thats clipperman's favorite line to a woman when he's trickin " he hangs up " Slish I don't know why she's flippin like this. " I respond " I know why. She knows " Clipperman responds " Knows what? About me going to Cali this weekend with the chick I told you about " I respond " Yup " Clipperman's ignorant ass says " How could she know ? " I say " ASSHOLE ! They always know. She calling because she's annoyed at the fact that she does know but has no proof. Therfore she cannot accuse you of anything. So instead she'll find something else to nit pick about. Throw you off your game, causing you to get pissed, careless and BAM BUSTED!!!! " Clipperman laughs and responds " Slish you're giving her too much credit" I respond " See!! That right there is your problem. You think women are stupid. You can't just pick up and go to Cali with another woman for 4 days and expect your lady to sit at home and believe you're stressed and need time alone. She knows Nigga!!!! " Clipperman " Fuck it! I need to get away and this chick is paying for the whole damn thing! How could I say no to that ! " I respond " I hope you been doing tongue exercises " Clipperman looks puzzled " Why would I have to do tongue exercises? " Cause you're definitly licking some pussy this weekend. You were bought and paid for. Don't you feel cheap ? Clipperman starts laughing and responds " Whatever lets go to the diner and get something to eat"
Bloggers. Clipperman is my boy and I got love for him, but he's an Ass. My personality will not allow him to treat women this way. Now its not because i'm in love. I just feel that men like Clipperman can cause so much damage to a womans psyche that when a real man comes along with good intentions and real dreams. She's so wounded that she interprets his good nature as game. Therefore dismissing or pushing the poor guy away.
I'm calling out!!! To all the Brothas out there. Fuck this Guy Code we have about infidelity. No. You don't have to rat yo boy out, but you can help him see the error of his ways. Things are hard enough for Black folks already. We can't trust our white counterparts at all so why mistrust one another. Black women need Black men. SO STAND UP!!! Tell your boy who's married to hang out with you instead of that fat ass chick that works at his job. STAND UP!!! and tell your buddy to stop using you as an alibi when he's cheating on his lady. STAND UP! and STOP listening to their stories about extracurricular activities. It only encourages them. Its time to rebuild people. We can't do that if we're divided.
Friday night Clipperman calls me while i'm at my part time job. Clipperman " Slish I bought the 60 gig Ipod. Still gonna be able to uplaod your playlist tonight? I look at the clock on the computer screen its says 9: oo pm I respond " Meet me in the Bronx at 10 pm " Clipperman sounding excited says " Thank you sir !!! " I finish up what I'm doing and head for the bx.
10:o6 pm I get to the Bronx and drive to the location where Clipperman stated he would be. I pull up to his van. He's in there chit chatting with his boy Drizzy. Drizzy says " What up gay boy. " I laugh, ignore his comment and respond " Can't call it. Haven't seen you in a while. Where you been ? " Drizzy responds" I 've been right here in the Bizonx just been laying low. Btw Slish whats with the no mustache. Looking like a circumcised penis." Clipperman busts out laughing. I respond "OOOh I see where this is going. Let me park my car." I get out, walk over to the van and rest my elbows on the drivers side window. " Drizzy you do realize that you used the word Gay and circumcised penis in back to back sentences. Clipperman starts to giggle cause he knows i'm warming up. Drizzy trying to make an exit says " Aiight fellas I gotta go. Waking up early in the morning" I say " Oh yeah for what? " Drizzy " Going to Va in the morning " Slasher responds " What for? " Drizzy " going to visit someone " THAT RIGHT THERE!!! Was the wrooooong answer. Slasher responds " You're going to see someone ? Not I'm going to see my family or I'm going to see some chick. YOU'RE GOING TO SEE SOMEONE!!! Clipperman starts the chuckle a little more. I say " Why be so secretive pretty boy. What you hidin! Drizzy responds " I'm going to see a chick." I look at clipperman and say " Riiight African!!! Drizzy " Aiight Slish I'm out " Clipperman and I start laughing real hard now I say " Aiight bruh Peace"
We're still laughing then Clipperman's cell phone starts to buzz. He looks at it. His smile turns into a frown. I laugh and say " Thats gotta be your lady." Clipperman nods and answers " Hello . No i'm with Slish and Drizzy . No i'm not avoiding you !! Cmooooon !! No i'm not up to anything !!! LOOK i'm with my people I will call you back ! " He hangs up " Slish she been driving me crazy all week!! I respond " Follow me back to my crib so we get these songs on your ipod I don't have time to hear any bullshit reason for her anger towards you tonight.
10 minutes later we're in my crib i'm downloading all my music files to his ipod. Clipperman cell phone starts to buzz again He sighs looks up at the ceiling and picks it up " Yes!! No i'm still with Slish and Drizzy " When he said that I turned around thinking why is he lying for no reason. We left drizzy 20 minutes ago. Clipperman continues " I am not avoiding you. Yes I know I haven't seen you since Sunday WHY!!! Cause i've been stressed and when i'm stressed I like to be alone " I laugh to myself because thats clipperman's favorite line to a woman when he's trickin " he hangs up " Slish I don't know why she's flippin like this. " I respond " I know why. She knows " Clipperman responds " Knows what? About me going to Cali this weekend with the chick I told you about " I respond " Yup " Clipperman's ignorant ass says " How could she know ? " I say " ASSHOLE ! They always know. She calling because she's annoyed at the fact that she does know but has no proof. Therfore she cannot accuse you of anything. So instead she'll find something else to nit pick about. Throw you off your game, causing you to get pissed, careless and BAM BUSTED!!!! " Clipperman laughs and responds " Slish you're giving her too much credit" I respond " See!! That right there is your problem. You think women are stupid. You can't just pick up and go to Cali with another woman for 4 days and expect your lady to sit at home and believe you're stressed and need time alone. She knows Nigga!!!! " Clipperman " Fuck it! I need to get away and this chick is paying for the whole damn thing! How could I say no to that ! " I respond " I hope you been doing tongue exercises " Clipperman looks puzzled " Why would I have to do tongue exercises? " Cause you're definitly licking some pussy this weekend. You were bought and paid for. Don't you feel cheap ? Clipperman starts laughing and responds " Whatever lets go to the diner and get something to eat"
Bloggers. Clipperman is my boy and I got love for him, but he's an Ass. My personality will not allow him to treat women this way. Now its not because i'm in love. I just feel that men like Clipperman can cause so much damage to a womans psyche that when a real man comes along with good intentions and real dreams. She's so wounded that she interprets his good nature as game. Therefore dismissing or pushing the poor guy away.
I'm calling out!!! To all the Brothas out there. Fuck this Guy Code we have about infidelity. No. You don't have to rat yo boy out, but you can help him see the error of his ways. Things are hard enough for Black folks already. We can't trust our white counterparts at all so why mistrust one another. Black women need Black men. SO STAND UP!!! Tell your boy who's married to hang out with you instead of that fat ass chick that works at his job. STAND UP!!! and tell your buddy to stop using you as an alibi when he's cheating on his lady. STAND UP! and STOP listening to their stories about extracurricular activities. It only encourages them. Its time to rebuild people. We can't do that if we're divided.
43 Comments:
My goodness, Slish, I am so feeling you on this post!!!!
you 'bout to start a riot up in this piece.
Let me find out you know my old man from the Bronx! i swear these stories remind so much of him it's scary...but then again it's gotta be a whole bunch of Jamaicans from the bronx huh?
Hey Slish...
I feel you on this post, bigtime! I know a couple of brothas. Both related to each other and both are married but they cheat constantly and been cheating for the past 10 to 15 years.. I just shake my head and say damn, damn , damn but the trip part about them is that the few times that I've hungout with them and despite them basically telling the world that they're married, women pass right by me just to get to them... Sumpin sumpin aint right..lol..
Slish let me find out you and the alter ego are going soft....I'm just joking man. I understand where your coming from but man it will take some million man march sh*t.....once a week with the message being repeated by all for that to register, not sure it's possible is what I'm saying.
I'm with you. No more covering for them. No more "he was with me" when it isn't true. I had two boys like that when I was in high school. Glad they've seen the error of their ways. They used to be players, now one is married and the other is getting married this year. both have turned in their player cards.
wow Slish. I'm impressed. It takes a real man to say some shit like that. That was some genuine/ authentic knowledge dropping right there. But, um.. you know some Africans are about to clown your ass for that shit. lol
THANK YOU!! Now come give me your advice on my blog. Cuz I'm ready to kick a mofo in his head!
*wait...ya'll feel that...the earth just moved...there has WITHOUT A DOUBT been a shift in the force*
LOL!! And you called me softy!!!
No seriously, I feel you on this post and I've sensed for a while not that you're a Stand-up kinda guy. That's not easy to do in a world of lies and deceit...*sigh* So Proud! You're a good friend to your boys and a good man Slishy...but when Zed reads this he gone lose his mind LOL!!!
THANK YOU. THANK YOU. THANK YOU.
**standing ovation**
Brothers need to understand, women CAN handle the truth.. It's lies that make us act crazy!
@ Soulfull. Brothas always complaining about women being the problem. They never look in the mirror.
@ Ms Ahmad No riot. Just want to enlighten some brothas. Things are bad out there. Black men and women have lost one another. Back in the day all we had was Black Love to keep Massa from breaking us down completely...
@ Var Stop hanging out with those fools. Thats too much negative energy. lol..Messing up your mojo..lol
@ 911 I'm not going soft. I'm getting smart. Men don't seem to realize the damage they've been causing throughout the years. They are so many broken sistas out there. It won't take a march just pass the word a long. " Brothas who need to cheat are insecure and weak minded."
@ Organized ..Lets start a movement bruh. What I don't understand is if guys want to be single they can. No need to get some woman all wrapped up into them for selfish reason.
@ Equal They will come and I will stand here and defend my post. I'm standing up!!! Tired of this bullshit. Tired of turning a blind eye to this madness. Just tired...
@ Bz I say kick him and kick his ass haaaaard. Don't put up with that kind of bullshit. They are men out there that will stand up. 4 have already left comments on my page...
@ Lol...Whats up Blogger Sis...There is a shift.I'm the cause and proud of it.
Royce Most of my life i've tried to stand up..But these wayward negros always knock me down. Saying shit like "your acting gay Slish", "Stop being such bitch Slish," "What kind of man are you Slish that goes against the guy code"...You know when I decided to stand up Royce..When I noticed my daddys friends stopped coming over.His views on how they should live their lives was different from his own. They were cheaters and he called them on it. I figured why break tradition.
As for Zed..He'll be okay. He won't flip. He'll just chastise me and say "Mind your own business African!" lol...
Did I just read what I think you wrote? Good for you!
There are so many married men out there doing dirt....just be honest with yourselves and your spouse. Women are tough creatures...the truth won't kill us. It's the act of selfishness that is the problem. You want to cheat but you don't want to give up all that you have at home.
ahh no riot yet, this is very good.
i think women can take the same advice and stop allowing homeboys, brothers cousins and in some cases lovers to not get away with this madness!
i stood up when my homeboys behaviour became out of control and embarrassing, but i did't want my good name to be affliated with such madness! he got mad but hopefully at some point he'll change his way!
Shut the fuck up you fake-ass Dr. Phil!!! Now cause you're all in touch with your feminine side you think you're the authority in this arena. Granted,(SOME)'men will be men' and act the fool, but keep that between you and your boy, no need in putting here where you can get the punnany vote on your side. You little bitch!
Mr. Music
@ One from Philly..Your welcome..Just wanted to let you ladies know there is hope.
@ 1969 You're not having a dream.I wrote and stand by what i've typed.. Men suffer from penis envy 1969 no other man shoud be able to satisfy their woman. Bullshit if your cheating then don't get mad when your wife/girlfriends decides to return the favor...
@ Miss Ahmad.. No riot..Not yet...and you're right Sista's don't encourage yo boys or cousins by lisening to their bullshit..Help them to become better men by explaining to them how pain they cause with this kind of behavior...
@ Mr Music..YOU'R AN ASS!!!! You must have grown some nuts while over seas. Men will be men!!! SHUT UP!! Its that kind of mentality thats fucking up our community. Take that shit back!!! I know you're smarter than that. Btw I've always had the punanny vote. Something you've never had while in the United States..HOLLAA!!!! LOL...
Guess who just walked in? The Man's Advocate!
The Guy Code is what it is. You let a cat make his own mistakes, but you don't have to participate. You can ask him not to use you as an alibi, but you can't hang his ass out to dry if he does it anyway.
Married cats always get caught, a cheating dude is never as happy as a forthright dude. It's just not our place to call 'em on it. It all evens out.
When I said "men will be men" I prefaced it 'SOME' just to give the intelligent reader the idea that I am obviously not talking about out all men. And, by no means am I condoning, accepting or promotive that kind of activity by black men or any other man for that matter. So, there is nothing for me to take back, and yes I am smarter than that. Don't ever make that mistake again...or I'll slap the lisp out of your mouth!!!
...And that's the bottom line 'cause MR. MUSIC said so!!!!!
Loves it! I have been preaching this for awhile especially in this time where AIDS is running through the black community like crazy. Stop lying for your son, brother or cousin when he's tricking. That shit ain't cute, or right. Stop covering for your boys when they're doing someone wrong. It's time for these boys to grow up and start being men and the only way for that to happen is for good people to stop covering for their asses. Love this post!
All I have to say about this ppost is AMEN!
*fanning myself with my Martin Luther King Jr fan*
@ Zed Let me give you a scenario..Your boy gets married. His wife treats you like one of the family. She feeds ya, gives you advice about women, Listens when you need an ear. Then you find out yo boy is doing her dirty by cheating. What do you then ? Just stand there and let a good person get stepped on. The Guy Code needs to be revised. It only benefits the man. Because if you flip it and you see his wife out with the next dude you would run and tell yo boy.
Fuck the Guy Code...lol
@ Mack "but to hear it from one of his boys might get thru to him"
My point exactly! Black men need to Stand UP!!!
@ Mr Music You do have some sense after all.
@ Miz JJ Thats right how can we consider ourselves good people if we enable this kind of behavior male or female.
@ Sandy baby "fanning myself with my Martin Luther King Jr fan "
LMAOF..
(((APPLAUSE)))
but let me ask you this, mr. slish: currently, i am a married man who's been cheated on by his wife, and she really hurt me. now, if me and you are "boys", and i in return for being cheated on, go out there and find me a honey dip to satisfy my soul with, and you know about it, i guess you gone rat me out to my wife like a bitch? you gone run to my wife and tell her what i did with another honey, when really, my wife set it off by cheatin' in the first place? but i did what i did not because i was retaliating, but really because i needed some release. i guess that's why we gotta be careful of who we label our true blue brothers, because number one i wouldn't even surround myself with bitches who gone run to my wife and tell her my business. i don't need an alibi; all i need is a reason why.
think about that.
Wow, This is good. And Clipperman is acting like an ass.
We always know.
*Men* NEVER underestimate women's intuition!
Question for Bigdaddykane-
So why are you still married?
And why did she cheat?
Stand up dudes (not "bitch friends") will tell you that getting back ..."releasing" "satisfying your soul with Honey Dip" (complete contradiction by the way) just makes no sense, her cheating therefore means she is not happy/lacking/not content/not satisfied. You are not her soul satisfier. :(
I'd rather have friends tell me that I am not doing right by him, because that means that there is someone better for me and someone better for him.
True friends tell you the truth even when it hurts.
Slishy is not implying that he is rating him out to his girl, but letting him know he is dead wrong, because she is seemingly doing right by him.
I hope your friends are whispering in your ear.... DIVORCE!!
(unless it's a hypothetical):P
@ Big Daddy... Reread my post. I clearly said I would show him the error of his ways. Its not my place to rat my boy out.
Now Since I read about your situaton. I will ignore the fact that you are implying that I am a Bitch. But your still angry so I can understand.
First of. A true friend would not encourage you to retaliate on your wife by cheating. I would tell you to leave her. File for a separation until the both of you can sort out your differences..
Cheating never solves anything. Makes your situation worse. Now your wife can always use that against you when shit hits the fan when before you had the upper hand. You have nothing to bargain with now.. YOU cheated!!!. Hurt + Hurt= more Pain.
Think about that.
mr. slish, just so happens i was comin' back to your spot because i like your postin' and i wanted to get the address right. i will turn my "boys" on to your spot because this is real man talk right here.
i must apologize for usin' that bad term with you - in no way was i callin' you that. i was usin' the term loosely. but you are right, if me and you are boys, you must show me the errors of my ways, but, what will you do, if after showin' me the error of my ways - i continue to do what i'm doin' behind my girl's back? you gone get mad and start resenting me and start actin' vindictive and you gone end up droppin' a dime on me anyway. disloyalty is what its called.
now as for me and terry (my wife): terry tricked off with a busted up ni**a (i wanted to use the word, but you might not appreciate it)even after i've been her king for years. there was nothin' i wouldn't give this woman. i gave her a good life, my emotions, my love, my attention, but still. now, normally i am not a cheatin' man, but, it's been a while for me and since i'm not goin' there with my wife anymore, i had a honey dip who is close to me share some time with me. i don't even believe in separation because separation leaves people hangin' on a limb. we're not "separated"; we're through for real. i'll be writin' out checks to my attorneys in the mornin'. now, should i sit around and be faithful to a woman who cheated on me when i'm plannin' on cuttin' her loose? nope, i don't think so. do my 'boys' know that i got it on with my honeydip? well, only two of them know. those are the two that i really trust with my life. guy code in a way. but you can believe that it wasn't a situation where i went back braggin and lookin for daps from them. we don't go out like that. but they know that a man is gonna do what he wants to do. my wife did what she wanted to do.
she don't know that i did my thang, nor will she ever know. if she did find out, ten times out of ten, she wouldn't care. some women are like that. they don't give a damn what a man does as long as he's breakin off the bread for her. terry is not quite like that, but she's arrogant as hell.
if a man is in a good relationship and he's messin around, then thats on him. you can preach the high and mighty to him, but when you turn your back, he'll be back doin the same thing you preached to him about. and if his girl found out that you knew what he was doin but you didn't feel decent to tell her, then she'll be mad at you for not spillin the secrets. then what will you say to her? "child, that wasn't my business what your man (my boy) was doin'. i don't get in other peoples business, child..."
if you aint willin to step up and tell your "sis" in law what your boy is doin, then what's the point of preachin to him? because he aint gone stop just because you preachin. you know he fuckin off a good thang, but will you go behind his back and rat on him if he don't stop? what if you are really close to his woman and treated her like a sister? which one of them means more to you?
in no way did i mean any disrespect to you in my earlier comment and i'm givin you daps on it. i would like to be in the blog brotherhood, that's all...
*applause applause*
Slish, please scream this from the mountain top or a blow horn or a load speaker...somewhere for the masses to hear.
You're such a stand up guy. Why can't they all be like you.
BDK: "she don't know that i did my thang, nor will she ever know. if she did find out, ten times out of ten, she wouldn't care. some women are like that. they don't give a damn what a man does as long as he's breakin off the bread for her"
SandraDee: This is the other half of the story. People need to respect their relationships and commit to being committed. I have heard "I don't care what he do, as long as he comes home to me" and "having a man cheat on you isn't the worst thing that could ever happen, at least you have a man" line from females more times than I care to admit. Get some self-respect ladies. Being in a bad relationship is not better than being alone.
Stop allowing yourselves to be cheated on. It's not ok.
Mizz JJ said it: HIV is killing the black community - it's not ok.
Barneys said it: Never underestimate a women's intuition - it's not ok.
To all the brothas.. MAN UP & stop running up and out in any pussy that will bend over. You are not the only one she is bending over for. Read the post from this guy. He is a young black pharmacist outta ATL: http://eastcoastcriticsarebiased.blogspot.com/2006/02/do-believe-hype.html
Slish = The epitome of a grown black MAN looking out for all of his people. This man is a leader and a warrior ladies and gentlemen.
Yeah, we can definitely start that movement. I'm all for it.
@ Big Daddy.. I took no offense. I know the anger you feel and its strong.
Now as for the scenario you speak of. If I tell you that cheating is wrong and you continue to carry on. No I wouldn't rat you out, BUT!!! I would not engage in any convo regarding that outside relationship. Thats a burden you will have to carry by yourself. As a matter of fact the cat I write about Fondu. He and I had this same conversation right before he got married. He agreed not to expose me to his philandering. Of course 1 year into his marriage He comes to me with that same bullshit. 2005 our friendship ended because of it.
I feel for you Big Daddy. I'm glad you can come here to my blog and express how you feel. Men need to do that sometimes. Instead we bottle up all that negative energy and act irresponsibly. When in reality we should use that energy to rebuild.
Build with me bruh.
Now as for being a part of The Blog Brotherhood. My motto " Never leave a good man behind "
@ Babybear I wasn't always a stand up guy..I took seeing the pain I caused the women from my past to realize that I could not continue being so callous with ones heart.
@ SandraDee Thats right Ladies need to Stand Up too..Don't let these fools break you
Sandy you gone make me break out my Conan The Barbarian draws after that warrior compliment. Thank you !!! :) I'm only here to tell the truth nothing more nothing less..
@ Organized Got me thinking now!! How could we pull something like that off? Women have support groups all the time why can't the Brothas have one too...
I do believe we're in the presence of a Grown Azz Man. Sexy aint he? ;)
And on point post by Barneys, too. Power Couple and shit. ;)
@ So wise Awwwww Shucks....got me blushing and shit...Oh Yeah my lady is one powerful mofo..Should hear her spit poetry...:)
Slish, we are waiting to you to blog about what all went down with you and Fondu. Inquiring minds wanna know...
Slish, I've been in just the situation you laid out. I've seen my boy's wife steppin' out on him. I told him, just as my ex-wife's homegirl would've told on me if she saw me creepin'.
I wanna ask you something though: Do you think we were still close after I told him? This is one of my best friends since 3rd grade and he thought I was trying to fuck up his marriage by telling him his wife was creeping.
Disfunctional relationships fuck up on their own. Everytime. Next time, I'll keep my mouth shut and let the next cat get cuckolded.
KZ
CHUUUUURCHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!Once a good girl gone bad, she gone forever.......and it messes it up for hte real chicks like me that cant get past a date.....Each one, teach one!!!!!
Thank you ... If nothing else you got men thinking!
@ Sandy You're right its time to rap things up and tell that story...
@ Zed Should have stepped to your boys wife not him...The person being cheated on always resents the person that informs them.
@ Ill Nana You're right about that shit...Hard to bring a woman back from the dark side. No force is that powerful...
@ Msnhim Your welcome..I wants brothas to do more than just think abiut what i've said.. I want tme to act on it. Be the leaders we all know we can be.
Speaking out when no one else will, is that Bronx in you.
Wanting to change the face of history by having men keep eachother in line/faithful, is Slishy in LUUUUV!
Smootches!
I agree with Nik...
Slish you're an anomally (did I spell hat right?) Anyway...this all sounds good and I know it is real talk coming from you, but the problem for us women...hell for the african american community in general (cause women can be grimy too) is that lies and deceit seem to garner more respect then the truth. Friends Don't hold each other accountable...but if more cats took your approach shyt would be different.
Hell half the cats who cheat do it for 2 reasons...one is to feed a bruised ego and the other is so he/she can have some shyt to talk about with their friends (so that those friends won't see them as suckas) but if in the latter situation...cats would refuse to listen or be a party to the information then it would like cause more people to stop doing the bullshyt.
Just my theory...this is a good dialogue among you brotha's though...proud to see you all talking about it.
Damn, I missed a hell of a discussion, but let me add my 2 cents. I've covered for my boys in the past, it was like my duty to do so. But it always bothered me when they were doing dirt on a good woman. Finally, I just said, I aint gonna be your alibi no more. You need to do right or leave that girl alone. Maybe not as strong as you did it, Slish, but they got the point.
At this point, i aint covering for nobody. I try to stay out of other peoples drama and since most of my friends now are female, I have been privy to alot of female dirt. I tell them the same thing. Im not gonna be your excuse, and dont come crying to me when he finds out.
Great Post.
can i say i got just a little wet from reading this post? dude, i will name my firstborn after you for this one right chea!
Good going Slish. I have man issues of my own to deal with, I can't even blog about them...
I'm always reading your blog...
@ Chez Thats the man in me..:)
@ Royce I agree with you about bruised egos needing to cheat... Ever notice most e men who cheat were herbs back in the day.So now that they're older. They have something to prove.
@ T Cas I must give it up to the fellas reading my blog. I didn't think the responses would be so positive. Thanks bruh...
@ Nikki Hehe... "Come her little Slishy!!!" Kinda has a nice ring to it..lol
@ Woman. Sorry to hear that. Hopefully your future will rescue you from your present.. Thank you for reading..:)
Yo Slish... Update on one of the dudes I was telling you about who cheats? His wife is asking for the Verizon online password so she can check the phone records..lol.. And his response was "wa-wa-wa- why you wanna see the phone records? I've been paying the phone bill for the last two years and you never asked before!" LOL.. And his homeboy who also cheats said to him "stupid, you should've got a pre-paid phone like me rather than getting the family plan with you and your wife on the same bill!" That dude is already trying to figure out ways to kiss his wife's ass so she wont keep asking about the phone bill..lol..
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